| "Kids who are forced
to live with strangers in territories
they can't control... at last have a map
for their desert island. Emotions like
anger and powerlessness run high in step
and blended families. This excellent
book first reassures kids that their
feelings and thoughts are valid and
normal, and then helps them handle the
emotions, outbursts, and dilemmas that
plague the millions of people in step
and blended families. The voices of
peers along with kid-friendly tests and
scenarios are invaluable as is the
solid, straightforward advice. I wish I
had this book for my step kids when I
was raising them. This guide can
transform an awkward family life into
one with unique treasures and rewards."
--Margaret Sagarese, parenting
expert and coauthor of the award-winning
The Roller-Coaster Years, and Keep
Cliques and Bullies from Invading Your
School.
"Kids ages 9-12 living in a
stepfamily often find themselves caught
between childhood and adolescence—and
between two parents, two homes, two
families. Written for tweens (parents
are encouraged to read with their
child), the authors of this book
compassionately weave together advice
from other tweens with tips for getting
along with new family members and
suggestions for what to do when nothing
seems to be working.
We appreciated their emphasis on
teaching practical skills and managing
emotions so kids can better cope with
their family. While the book is not
written from a Christian faith
perspective, it is consistent with a
Judeo-Christian ethic."
--Ron Deal, an author,
therapist, stepfamily education
specialist and the founder of
"Successful Stepfamilies."
"Finally an accessible, thoughtful
book that acknowledges the realities of
stepfamily life and offers kids workable
solutions that are not dumbed down or
patronizing. This should be required
reading for all kids with a parent who
is remarrying."
--Brette Sember, J.D., author of How
to Parent with Your Ex
“What is remarkable about "The Step-Tween
Survival Guide" is that the authors run
through a wide range of situations and
really provide youngsters with a
tremendous amount of resources that they
can use.
There are techniques and skills that
will strengthen any kid's abilities to
thrive in family situations of all
types. Empowering children to take
control of what they can control is one
of the greatest gifts of this guide.
Every educator at every level would
benefit from reading this well-written,
well-designed portable tool. Every kid
can benefit from reading this book."
--George Rubenstein, guidance
counselor at Cedar Ridge High School in
Hillsborough, North Carolina
"Lisa Cohn and Debbie Glasser,
Ph.D have written a wonderful book 'The
Step-Tween Survival Guide' for kids who
live in stepfamilies. The book gives
these people sound advice how to cope
with the situation. They also give
'Survival Tools' to these kids if
situations become unbearable. In my
opinion both the writers delicately
handled this sensitive topic."
--theblogcritic.org
"“The Step-Tween Survival Guide”
perfectly describes the feelings and
experiences that children handle as a
result of blended families. The authors capture that
unique balance between acceptance and
frustration, happiness and sadness, and
a host of other emotions that fluctuate
hourly for tween-agers, in even the best
of circumstances. This serious topic is
approached with hands-on exercises,
heartfelt wisdom, and much needed humor.
It's a must-have for every stepfamily
wanting to create a sense of warmth,
open communication and love for their
children."
--Roni Leiderman, Ph.D.
Dean, Mailman Segal Institute for Early
Childhood Studies
Nova Southeastern University
Ft. Lauderdale, FL
"A much-needed book for young teens
who are living through family upheaval.
Whether due to divorce or death, many
teenagers are dealing with stepparents,
new stepsiblings, invasion of privacy
and changes in the household rules.
Drawn from interviews with real stepkids,
the authors help young readers identify
and deal with their feelings and learn
strategies for coping while keeping a
positive outlook that this, too, can be
not only dealt with -- but maybe even
have some positive outcomes."
--Harriet Heath, Ph.D. Director, The
Parent Center, Child Study Institute and
Thorne School, Bryn Mawr College, author
of Using Your Values to Raise Your
Child to be an Adult You Admire.
"A must read for anyone with tweens
in their stepfamily! Finally, someone
has addressed these important members of
the stepfamily."
--Jeannette Lofas, president, The
Stepfamily Foundation Amazon
Reviews: "Im a 19 year old step
kid who wishes I had this book when i
was younger and dealing with these
issues. The book adresses a lot of the
situations we delt with in our step
family. Fairness, differnt rules in
differnt houses, step parents who try to
run the show, different personalities
with step siblings aswell as step
parents, and different parenting styles.
This book gives great examples and great
tips on how to deal with and handle
these issues. It also showes how to
learn from and make the most of hard
situations one can be faced with in a
step family. This book is helpful to not
only tweens but to all kids in step
families." --Wendy "This book
is full of quotes and anecdotes from
stepkids who provide a realistic view of
stepfamily life - both the positives and
negatives. The authors also provide
engaging quizzes tips and tools that
help kids in stepfamilies identify their
feelings and learn how to communicate
them to family members. The book
includes fascinating stories from
stepkids who learn how to turn negative
situations into positives. The Step-Tween
Survival Guide is full of hope, help,
and humor. A great read not only for
tweens, but for all stepkids." --C.L.
"The Step-Tween Survival Guide is an
excellent book for anyone in a
stepfamily. It incorporates very honest,
real life stories with great practical
advice. There are even entertaining and
helpful quizzes and survival tips. Lisa
Cohn and Dr. Deb Glasser clearly know
what they are talking about from
personal and professional experience. I
recommend this book to anyone who wants
real, practical advice for the
challenges we face in stepfamily
situations." --R. Smith
"The authors really know what they're
talking about. The illustrations and
graphics are perfect for 'tweens and
work really well with the testimonials.
The advice is thoughtful, and
well-researched. A great book to have
lying around in plain sight if you're a
blended family with 'tweens. They're
bound to be drawn in by the friendly
illustrations and testimonials from real
kids." --M. Gunther
"Lisa Cohn has a brilliant way of
identifying, addressing and offering
useful solutions to the issues that
individuals face in stepfamilies. As a
member of a stepfamily, I found her
first book tremendously helpful and was
pleased to see that she has another
which focuses primarily on teens in
stepfamilies. Her insight and experience
will serve as a practical guide to the
thousands who navigate their way through
this challenging set of family
relationships." --Joe Hertzberg
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